The only wisdom we can hope to acquire is that of humility: humility is endless.
T.S. Eliot (1888-1965) in Four Quartets (1943)
Humility is not living its best times among organisational leaders. Although it has been an integral concept throughout the history of thought, we talk, discuss and work little on humility, as if incorporating it into the capabilities of a good leader would lower our status, and discussing it would make us waste our time.
In addition, its definition is sometimes diffuse, unclear, intermingled with other concepts such as modesty, simplicity or good-naturedness.
Far from it, humility has a precise definition, as do those other words. Dictionaries define it as the virtue of knowing one’s own limitations and weaknesses and acting in accordance with this knowledge. Therefore, humility is an internal exercise of deep self-knowledge that allows us to act more effectively, as opposed to modesty, which is the way we present ourselves to others. One is the way we see ourselves, and the other is the way we present ourselves. They’re often linked, but not necessarily.
Introducing humility in organisations
Humility is, at its core, a self-regulatory capacity, since having this faculty allows us to have good self-knowledge, and knowing ourselves well allows us to act accordingly, making the most of our skills and talents. According to the American psychologist Roy Baumeister, humility allows a threefold understanding of oneself in relation to the world (reflective awareness), in relation to others (interpersonal being), and in relation to what one does and performs (executive function).
Humility brings us out of ourselves, and makes us realise and accept that there’s something greater than ourselves. In fact, humility is the antonym of narcissism, the over-consideration and complacency of the self. A narcissism that seems to fill social networks, where the culture of the self seems to be more present than ever.
Therefore, humility is always an interesting and enriching exercise since knowledge of one’s own strengths and limitations (and acting in accordance with this knowledge) becomes, as we will see below, a competitive advantage for individuals, leaders and organisations, as well as the antidote to the disease of our time according to Lowen.
Humility has been studied systematically and rigorously in organisations over the last decade. Among its great scholars we find professors Amy Ou and Bradley Owens, whose two studies on the relevance of humility in organisations have been published in two prestigious journals: Administrative Science Quarterly and Academy of Management Journal, respectively.
Humility, among the skills of a good leader
In Professor Ou and her team’s study, 328 senior and 645 middle managers from 63 companies were surveyed, along with in-depth interviews with 51 CEOs in order to understand the effects of humble leadership (Ouet al., 2014). The hypotheses from which the team started was that a humble leader, again one who is aware of his or her capabilities and limitations as a good leader and acts accordingly, is oriented towards a greater good and a less glorious vision of him or herself, being a clear invitation to foster the capabilities of others, and thus their empowerment.