Turning frustrations into solutions
It is normal to feel frustrated from time to time at work. But letting negative feelings overwhelm us is the kryptonite of intrinsic motivation and will ultimately prevent us from achieving our goals.
Our emotional resources have a survival purpose, but also a developmental and growth function. Of course, you have every right to feel frustrated with the way things are. Who likes to spend time solving problems and dealing with tasks that don’t interest them? But is it the right approach, or do they become even more unbearable as our negative feelings increase?
According to some studies, negative thoughts and feelings, when left unchecked, slow down the brain, increase stress levels and make it difficult to solve problems. This is why it’s essential to learn skills related to emotional regulation. Emotional regulation is the ability to manage emotions to our advantage.